Personal and professional effectiveness means that performing a particular task or activity in a superior manner, better than the best benchmark currently available for that task/activity or at least, matching up with it. It may not be possible to reach that excellence level from the present level , all of a sudden. However, one can improve upon one’s effectiveness gradually from current status to the newly defined status.
We will have to follow a standard operating procedure (SOP or a process) for that.
First, we should have a desire to improve in that particular task/activity. You can take a horse to water but can not make it drink water unless the horse has desire to drink water. Same with human beings too.
Secondly, we should learn the relevant knowledge pertaining to that task. There is lot of knowledge for every task. Some one has written a 200 pages book titled “how to do a great handshake”.
And, then we should practice that task again and again. Practice makes a man (and woman) perfect. There is no short cut to practice. There is no short cut to knowledge and desire also. If we wish to excel in shaking hands with people, first we have to learn from that 200 pages book (make sure that the stuff is authentic) and keep on shaking hands with every one we meet.
Ultimately, we will score 10 on 10 in shaking hands and it will become our habit. We will internalize that skill. It can happen to anyone , automatically, in the superior most manner, effortlessly.
Excellence in any skill is all about practice
“Practice” makes a man (and a woman) perfect. Its true.
Why do you think that the soldiers and their officers in the armed forces walk smartly (as compared to large numbers of civilians)? Simply because they are given the knowledge on how to walk smartly, they learn the standard operating procedure (SOP, the process) on walking smartly. And, then, they walk every day for hours together in their daily parades/drills. They rehearse and rehearse and try to make it perfect.
So, when you have a desire to pick up any skill and become the best in it, get the required knowledge to perform that skill correctly and then, practice, practice and practice.
You do need skills of all sorts to become successful in your personal, professional, family and social life and you got to be damn good in them if you wish to excel. And who doesn’t?
So, choose a skill and perfect it.
Excellence in Competencies / Skills
We will be able to achieve the excellence in any skill or competency only if we rehearse or practice the learned skill a large number of times. Knowledge alone is no guarantee for achieving great levels in skills or competencies.
Implementation of knowledge is the name of the game.
Great Knowledge + Zero Implementation = No effectiveness, No results, No success
Some Knowledge + Some implementation = Some Effectiveness, Some Results, Some Success
Great Knowledge + Great Implementation = Great Effectiveness, Great Results, Great Success
There are 4 levels of competencies or skills:
1. Unconsciously incompetent: Ignorance (example: you are not even aware that there are some proper styles of swimming)
2. Consciously incompetent: Acceptance of incompetence and creating a desire to learn (example: you accept that you do not swim properly and you will like to learn the correct styles of swimming)
3. Consciously competent: Gaining the knowledge about the skill to be mastered and begin practicing the knowledge gained (example: gaining knowledge on how to swim using proper styles of swimming and start swimming using the right styles of swimming)
4. Unconsciously competent: Keep practicing the knowledge gained till you gain mastery in the skill (example: you have now become an expert swimmer since you have been swimming using the proper styles of swimming over number of hours and you can now give yourself 9 on 10 or even 10 on 10)
For greater success in life, we should try to reach the unconsciously competent level in the skills required by us for our professional, personal, family and social activities/tasks/projects.
Doing every verb of a dictionary needs skills
To sit (properly and decently) needs skill of sitting properly and decently. You have to learn the right way of sitting and then keep doing it that way every time you sit.
To walk (smartly) needs the skill of walking smartly. You have to learn as to how to walk smartly and then practice walking using that knowledge.
To dance (artistically) needs the skill of dancing artistically. (The professional dancers rehearse hours and hours before they are ready to perform in front of an audience or a camera).
To make love (in satisfying manner) does not happen the very first time. You got to learn its theory and then practice it and every time improve upon the way you do it in order to gain the right kind of expertise in it.
So choose the skill you need to and so, wish to develop and learn about its theory and practice it.
SOFT SKILLS & HARD SKILLS
We also need to sharpen our soft skills as well as our hard skills in order to become effective, efficient and successful in our life and our professions.
Hard skills are to do with the technical skills and soft skills are the behavioral skills. Both types of skills are required for carrying out our professional activities effectively and efficiently. They are also required to be successful in our personal, family and social life.
We should first identify as to which soft skills and hard skills we need to develop. Each person may have his or her unique requirements. Once having identified them, we will need to feel motivated about developing those skills. There is no short-cut to master the skills. We will have to acquire the right kind of knowledge about those skills and then keep on practicing.
Then, we are there to win the world.
Hard skills are technical skills. Like writing programs for computers, preparing a balance sheet, working on a particular machine for a particular process in a manufacturing workshop, acting in a television serial or a cinema film, carrying out a surgery etc. We must have proficiency in these skills in order to become a good professional in our chosen fields and to earn decent living.
We can do a still better job of our chosen professions if we also acquire proficiency in those soft skills which are required to perform our jobs better. These soft skills are behavioral in nature. For example, how do we communicate with the people, how good are we in making business presentations, how empathetic we are with the people we come across, can we work as a team member, do we manage our time well and so on. These skills make all the difference.
Mere technical skills allow us certain degree of success. We can achieve higher degree of success if we equip ourself with soft skills too.
Technical skills are obvious and people learning them find it easy to understand and follow the processes of acquiring these skills. However, one wonders as to what is there to learn in soft skills; we are already doing them. Say, communication. We have been speaking and listening from the very young age and so, one may think as to what is there to learn more and how to learn. But if we look around, we may find that some people are more effective in speaking than others. Here is the answer. The people who speak more effectively have learnt and practiced to speak effectively. They have followed and implemented certain processes and guidelines for speaking more effectively. It did hot happen to them accidentally or automatically.
Soft skills make a difference in the external and internal personalities. People who acquire soft skills of high order are more sophisticated, more cultured, more reformed and are found to be more successful in every walk of life.
Therefore, in addition to perfecting our hard skills, we should also try to perfect soft skills.
Competency Matrix , Competency mapping , Gap Analysis and competency building
The model to build up hard and soft skills/competencies and gain excellence in them, in a focused manner, is a four stage model:
1. Developing your competency matrix: By your self analysis and taking help of others (your friends, spouse, parents, brothers and sisters, professional associates, bosses etc), find out the hard and soft skills/competencies you should possess in order to be successful in your professional and family roles. Write them down.
2. Map your own competencies against the competency matrix requirements: Check out if you have those required skills/competencies and are they at the desired level of proficiencies.
3. Analyze the competency gaps: By doing steps 1 & 2, you will come to know your skill/competency gaps. Which are the skills/competencies that are totally absent in you and you should pick them up fast because they are critical to your success. Yo